Expand Your Sex Life

There's a lot of talk around about lengthy, 'marathon sex', about the need for extended foreplay to get things fired up, the need for sex toys and changing positions thirty five times to extend the session.  Now, nobody said there's anything wrong with extensive sexual adventures, they’re definitely needed in any sexually active relationship.  Still, don't forget about the lesser known champion, the 'quickie'.

There are many men who think that nearly all women don't get off on these quick encounters, or that women aren’t fulfilled by them.  This suggestion, as unfortunately widespread as it is, is far from the truth.  But on the other side of the coin, many women out there assume that asking for an intense sexual encounter over the couch or in the supply closet will make them seem easy or dirty.  I beg of you, don't think in this manner.  Men that think less of women for needing to express her sexuality and her desire for him in unorthodox settings are out of the ordinary.

The average woman, while engaging is self-pleasure, can achieve orgasm in less than 3 minutes, that same woman can arrive at the same objective in just less than 8 minutes from sex.  With the addition of the emotional strength of a quick romp in the back seat of a car, and the extra exhilaration of the possibility of being seen will often help those participating in arriving at the final result even faster.  This means that in most cases women are plenty pleased at the end of a fast ‘meeting’, and even if time runs out before either or both get to reach orgasm it’s still fun and can add some excitement to your day.

Sex toys also have the ability to add to the ‘quickie’ experience as these encounters don’t always have to be 100% unplanned.  For couples who are practiced users of sex toys, and even anybody who’s interested in trying something new, keep a travel sized sex toy or 2 with you next time you have a day out.  Taking a travel sized, discrete sex toy with you, such as a vibrating bullet or finger vibrator, will give you even more options for excitement when the mood strikes.  There are sex toys that vibrate (which should typically only be used in areas where the ambient noise level is high which can easily be used on women and men, there are also ‘fingers’ which are usually rubber or silicone and are put on the end of your finger and are bumpy or have ridges for added pleasure.  In addition, you can get sex toys that are meant for the man’s pleasure such as special hand wraps used to increase hand stimulation.

There are many popular places to rendez-vous, some include:

• On the kitchen table
• In your car
• In a supply closet
• In a public restroom (in one that’s clean)
• In the forest on a hike
• Or whenever you’re feeling frisky!

So remember, particularly for all the timid ladies out there, be vocal, tell your lover when you're in the mood and be creative!  Very often the best sex can be quick sex in a random, exciting place at 3:28 p.m.